THE MEMBER EXPERIENCE

More ways to find the right dynamic.

Discover compatible UK adults, start conversations at your own pace and choose the membership tools that fit how you want to connect.

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FREE TO JOIN ADULTS ONLY PRIVATE MEMBER AREA

FROM PROFILE TO CONVERSATION

Find, connect and build trust.

Use the parts of the platform that help you explore with more clarity, whether you are browsing quietly or ready to be more visible.

Discover compatible members

Browse profiles and use preferences to focus on the roles, interests and relationship intentions that matter to you.

Receive daily suggestions

See a changing selection of potential matches informed by the preferences and details members choose to share.

Start private conversations

Move from an introduction to a real conversation with messaging options that expand across the membership tiers.

Take part in the community

Share updates and photos, comment on posts and join polls or quizzes when you want more ways to be seen.

Look for trust signals

ID verification, profile validation and earned badges provide more context before you decide to engage.

Increase your visibility

VIP+ visibility tools can place your profile and messages more prominently when you want to make the first move.

MEMBERSHIP OPTIONS

Choose how you want to explore.

Start with a free profile, then add more conversation or visibility tools if they suit the way you want to meet people.

FREE MEMBERSHIP

Classic

Everything you need to create a profile, explore the community and start making considered connections.

Build a full profile and browse members
Receive daily match suggestions
Post updates, photos and community replies
Use a daily messaging allowance
Access verification and profile badges

MORE WAYS TO CONNECT

VIP

Remove messaging limits and use stronger discovery and conversation tools when you are ready to do more.

Everything available with Classic
Send messages without daily limits
Use advanced search filters
Access chat rooms and private groups
Rewind swipes and see who likes you

MAXIMUM VISIBILITY

VIP+

Add priority and visibility advantages designed to help the right people notice your profile sooner.

Everything available with VIP
Explore an exclusive premium match pool
Receive priority message and like placement
Use boosted profile visibility
Access Super Match as a paid add-on

FEATURE COMPARISON

See what each membership includes.

Every tier includes a profile, discovery tools and access to trust features. Upgrades expand communication and visibility.

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Comparison of Classic, VIP and VIP+ membership features
Feature	Classic	VIP	VIP+
Core experience
Create a free account and full profile	Included	Included	Included
Browse member profiles	Included	Included	Included
Daily match suggestions	Included	Included	Included
Post updates and photos	Included	Included	Included
Comment on articles and member posts	Included	Included	Included
Participate in polls and quizzes	Included	Included	Included
Communication
Send messages with a daily allowance	Included	Included	Included
Read and reply to VIP or VIP+ messages	Included	Included	Included
Unrestricted messaging	Not included	Included	Included
Exclusive chat room access	Not included	Included	Included
Private group chats for up to 50 people	Not included	Included	Included
Discovery
Advanced search filters	Not included	Included	Included
Rewind swipes	Not included	Included	Included
See everyone who likes you	Not included	Included	Included
Trust
Free ID verification	Included	Included	Included
Admin profile validation	Included	Included	Included
Verified, Chatterbox, Heartthrob and Most Popular badges	Included	Included	Included
Visibility
Priority comment placement	Not included	Included	Included
Exclusive premium matches	Not included	Not included	Included
Priority message and like placement	Not included	Not included	Included
Boosted profile visibility	Not included	Not included	Included
Top-of-stack match placement	Not included	Not included	Included
Super Match	Not included	Not included	Available add-on

Core experience

Create a free account and full profile

Classic: Included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Browse member profiles

Classic: Included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Daily match suggestions

Classic: Included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Post updates and photos

Classic: Included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Comment on articles and member posts

Classic: Included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Participate in polls and quizzes

Classic: Included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Communication

Send messages with a daily allowance

Classic: Included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Read and reply to VIP or VIP+ messages

Classic: Included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Unrestricted messaging

Classic: Not included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Exclusive chat room access

Classic: Not included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Private group chats for up to 50 people

Classic: Not included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Discovery

Advanced search filters

Classic: Not included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Rewind swipes

Classic: Not included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

See everyone who likes you

Classic: Not included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Trust

Free ID verification

Classic: Included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Admin profile validation

Classic: Included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Verified, Chatterbox, Heartthrob and Most Popular badges

Classic: Included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Visibility

Priority comment placement

Classic: Not included
VIP: Included
VIP+: Included

Exclusive premium matches

Classic: Not included
VIP: Not included
VIP+: Included

Priority message and like placement

Classic: Not included
VIP: Not included
VIP+: Included

Boosted profile visibility

Classic: Not included
VIP: Not included
VIP+: Included

Top-of-stack match placement

Classic: Not included
VIP: Not included
VIP+: Included

Super Match

Classic: Not included
VIP: Not included
VIP+: Available add-on

MATCHING SUGGESTIONS

Suggestions shaped around what matters to you.

Matching draws on a range of preferences and profile details to surface potentially relevant people. It is a useful starting point, not a promise of compatibility.

Role, dynamic and relationship preferences
Age range and gender preferences
Location and preferred distance
Recent activity on the platform
Lifestyle choices and relationship intentions
Shared interests, hobbies and personal values

VIP+ ADD-ON

Make an introduction with Super Match.

A Super Match gives your message a distinctive presentation and prominent inbox position, helping your introduction stand apart. The recipient can reply directly to open a conversation.

Available as a purchasable add-on for VIP+ members.

SAFETY & TRUST

More context before you connect.

Free ID verification is available across all tiers, with a badge indicating that a member has completed the check. Admin profile validation provides an additional authenticity signal without displaying personal verification documents.

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EXPLORE BY INTENT

Start with the connection you want to explore.

Membership tools are only part of the decision. Choose a guide that reflects the dynamic or kind of connection you want to understand first.

BROAD GUIDE

BDSM Dating UK

Start with the broad guide to discreet, role-aware kink dating across the UK.

Explore guide

BY ROLE

Dominant Dating

Explore confident connection shaped by clarity, mutual fit and consent.

Explore guide

BY ROLE

Submissive Dating

Find respectful matches where boundaries, pace and trust stay visible.

Explore guide

YOUR NEXT STEP

Start with a free profile.

Explore the member area first, then decide whether Classic, VIP or VIP+ fits the way you want to connect.

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